> And really - I think that's the crux of the issue. If you're doing something because someone else might judge you if you don't, or because someone else did something similar and you want to show off too... then you're probably doing it for the wrong reasons.
That's it; why do we do what we do?
When I mentor people, I ask three questions? (1) who are you, (2) whom do you want to become, (3) how can I help?
Who we are and what we value are... so interesting. Like, why did I have an urge to get a beautiful quartz counter-top? It baffles me that I would spend more on home improvements then beefing out my computer.
Awesome exchange this. I never understood people that wanted hardwood floors (I've never been in the position to be able to afford one, let alone make my mind wander in a way that I'd ruminate about the topic), now I get it a little better. Thanks :)
That's it; why do we do what we do?
When I mentor people, I ask three questions? (1) who are you, (2) whom do you want to become, (3) how can I help?
Who we are and what we value are... so interesting. Like, why did I have an urge to get a beautiful quartz counter-top? It baffles me that I would spend more on home improvements then beefing out my computer.