This ^ is my favourite writeup on the question of how you implement SOC2. I wish I had read that before we started - after going through the Type 1 and Type 2 process, we've ended up with the same conclusions. I've lost count of the number of times I've recommended that.
Our experience (global b2b customers, heavily skewed to NA) is that SOC2 Type 2 is the most frequently requested/expected standard, and if you have that, not having ISO is very rarely a dealbreaker. Neither makes the security questionnaires go away; they continue to be mandatory, require expert input, and are a significant drain on time. However, having SOC2 and/or ISO does mean that you've already thought of the answers to the questions and you'll have a defensible position, backed up by a track record of independent audits, when your particular approach doesn't meet the "gold" standard implied by the questionnaire. (Edit: typo)