I'm extremely pedantic about high refresh rates, tearing and mutli-monitor workflows - though I recently upgraded to a single 144hz ultrawide and it's been great.
For a little while Chrome would max out at 60fps and it was quite annoying, but now it runs at 144fps (no vsync) and it's quite pleasant. Despite there not being vsync in Chrome, there is no tearing.
There is no screen tearing using the desktop normally, and no tearing when playing Steam games.
IIRC, mutli-monitor support was actually better under Wayland for me because I previously had 2 27inch monitors, one was 144hz and the other 60hz. Having different refresh rates on each was an issue on X.
In general I have found it to be a smooth, consistent experience and I couldn't really tell it apart from X unless I knew what to look for.
That said, I use Chrome for a large portion of my application roster - Discord, Slack, etc. I, unfortunately, use the native Zoom client because their web client doesn't mirror my webcam and it's too jarring to see myself like that haha.
I don't use OBS or anything like that, and I don't know what support is like on nvidia GPUs - I might move to nvidia next generation so I'm a little anxious that they'll cramp my Linux style.
I use Zoom, Chrome, Steam, VScode and other things involving programming, working and gaming.
I'm on an AMD GPU/CPU and using a 144hz ultrawide monitor