The skill in using an LLM currently is in getting you to where you want to be, rather than wasting time convincing the LLM to spit out exactly what you want. That means flipping between having Aider write the code and editing the code yourself, when it's clear the LLM doesn't get it, or you get it better than it does.
This is the key thing that I feel most people who dislike using LLMs for development miss. You need to be able to quickly tell if the model is just going to keep spinning on something stupid, and just do it yourself in those scenarios. If you're decent at this then there can only really be a net benefit.
