I don’t disagree with you. Parenting is hard, and some of the job is being a role model. If you show your kids the only way to relax is to beg in front of Netflix that’s what they’ll see. One of the nicest things I see on a weekday evening bfis kids with their parents at the driving range - it’s clearly 0 break for the parent, but the kids are usually having a great time doing what mom/dad like doing.