Odd how some pieces of info come in one's life synced with one's needs. I'm in adjacent rooms with my mom and sister and we're all on phones. Just had the thought about regretting this in a potential future and then decided to continue my phone-strolls on HN. Found this advice/regret and it maxxed on instantaneous salience.
>don't value regrets packaged as advice, especially from people who never acted on their advice
>Better advice comes from things people actually did.
What happens when it takes quite a bit more focused effort to do something like not be on "social" media than it does to idle along with the mainstream?
The line is pretty blurry to begin with, and can be a moving target making it hard to know for sure whether you are doing, not doing, or being done :)