Hi! Long time lurker.
After a six or seven year career spanning different generalist tech roles (everything from product designer to front-end engineer to platform developer), I founded a startup, raised seed, and sold for a 5x return. Yay.
I've spent two years at my acquiring company, mostly making sure that our IP gets integrated and has a good home. It's clear however that the acquiring company is not a growth company by any means, and I find myself incredibly stifled by the slow pace, the lack of vision, and frankly, the denial about the situation.
I report into to our CPO, but have found myself unable to find a realistic vector for also becoming a C*O in the company, as he is unlikely to leave as a founder and they do not appear all that interested in exploring alternatives that might cause his role to be diminished or otherwise carved up. I likely wouldn't be all that interested in sticking around anyway, given the cultural problems I mentioned above.
As I look out into the job market, I'm concurrently finding myself being a week late to opportunities. By that I mean, by the time I find them and/or a recruiter reaches out to me, a candidate is already deep in the process. It's frustrating, and I'm finding myself wondering if my long-standing aversion to networking is causing me to miss these opportunities, as I assume that most of these jobs are filled with internal recommendations from people within the professional network of the other executives.
(I should note that I'm actually an extrovert by personality, and have a..decent-to-good sized network within my industry. I just find networking and the typical post-conference drinks to be incredibly tedious.)
I'm at a bit of a loss for how to accurately phrase the question, but hopefully some of you will understand where I'm coming from. Is the right move simply to suck it up and pretend to enjoy forced conversations? Is there a recruiting firm who is actually somewhat good at handling generalist/entrepreneur types? Or is this just the narrowing of the pyramid as you get closer to the top?